Let’s face it, the hardest thing you will ever do in your life is face the truth. Yeah, you own truth what you fail to ignore that truth the one you stress yourself out about in your head.
I’ve had to come to terms with so many things and they were the hardest things I’ve had to do in my life.
But those decisions have made me a stronger woman. I was able to overcome my fears and do what I had to do to make ME happy and that’s the important part, right? Nobody said this journey through life would be easy, especially when you start to do things on your own.
When I started this blog I knew I wasn’t going to get support from everyone, but guess what? Why? Because everybody won’t support and everyone won’t believe in the dream you have. I try my best to support people whether it’s reposting a post, tagging them in events. And it’s noticed that as I have gotten older I want to be more supportive for everyone I have come across or just had a brief conversation with because it’s amazing in the long run.
There comes a point in life where you start to evolve and become the person you are meant to be and I think that I am on my way to where I wanna be. Who do you want to be? Where do you see yourself in 10 years? Will you be the person you want to be by living in the truth now?
As you go through life there are things you must face such as leaving a bad relationship, ending toxic friendships, stop associating with family members, and the list goes on. So here are some things you need to ask yourself.
Who am I? What’s stopping me from facing the truth? Am I ignoring the truth when it’s right Am I the woman/man saying ” Oh it’ll get better with time?” What should I do to change?
You start to question yourself and second guess yourself because you face the truth LEAVE THAT MAN what are you benefiting from arguing with him every day? Get to know yourself, listen I have been single for FIVE YEARS (judge ya momma lol), but seriously when was the last time you thought about yourself and not your man, husband, or children? Yeah, this is off topic, but me time is ALWAYS needed.
Looks I ain’t here to judge nobody and each and every one of us got shit in our closest we probably don’t want to face. I got stuff I still don’t want to talk about, but I know one day I will. You have to do it for your sanity, are you afraid someone is gonna judge you? I am not anymore and I live with that so I speak my truth which is that being single has made me become a better person. I know what I want, what I don’t want and I REFUSE to take shit from a mf that can’t do for me. People are out for self so it’s okay to be for you.
Since I’ve gone on a mission to face my truth and begin to be honest about my feelings I’ve been told I was mean, fake, and the list goes on. Being open about stuff has helped me become a better person and I am okay with being called fake, or someone not telling me something that happened to them because they feel like I am judging them. The truth is I am not judging you I want what’s best for you and if you can handle my honestly because you don’t wanna face your truth I am 110% okay with that.
Now I have literally been sitting on 3-4 blog post and they will be post VERY soon I am so sorry, but my anxiety is at an all-time high. I love you all that are still hanging in there see ya’ll soon.